🤷🏾‍♀️ ACCEPT 🤷🏾‍♀️

2. Leentje perceives antagonistic, callous – defence, survival – mechanisms as unfair.

Is there something Loreen can do about the unfairness?

If so, can Loreen adapt without hurting, to make it less unfair?

See 👁️👁️ the effects of these mechanisms.

Apologize💌.

Stop🥋 Perfecti (shame).

Let in: self-worth affirmations💋.

Seek the needed help🩺 to 🦸🏾‍♀️move Lorena aside.

Imagine💛, restore, focus on this side of the connection in a safe space🏩.

Picture a future🔮 of a happy, safe place without these mechanisms.