๐ DISSECT ๐
Leentje feels important when (Loreen spends time, energy, money on her needs, regularly, often):
Need for safety:
๐คซ Silent time: ๐ฅ stop Perfecti ๐ฆธ๐พโโ๏ธ move Lorena ๐ affirm Leentje.
Therapy๐๐ฑ๐ญ๐ก๐ฉบ.
Need to play, have fun:
Discover๐ต๐พโโ๏ธ ๐๐จ๐ผ๐ณ๐ฑ๐บ๐ธ๐ช๐ฆ๐ช๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ท๐บ๐จ๐ณ ๐ค ๐๐ ๐๏ธ๐๏ธ
Feel๐ ๐๐๐ฆถ๐พ๐ โฑ๏ธโ๏ธ๐๐พ๐ณ๐ฟ
Need for autonomy:
Take a step ๐ถ๐พโโ๏ธon a healthy path๐๐๐๐ผ๐จโ๐ง.
Receive a I-believe-in-you kiss๐ stamp for a new step ๐ถ๐พโโ๏ธ.
Picture a future๐ฎ.
Need for realistic boundaries:
Let go of unhealthy bonds๐ and receive healthy attention instead, like coaching๐๐ฑ๐ฉบ, physio๐ญ๐ฉบ, training๐ก๐ฅ๐ฅ.
Discover๐ต๐พโโ๏ธ new healthy ways to connect ๐.
Need for freedom to express:
Join a group training to express๐ฃ๏ธ emotions and needs.
Leentje feels special when (Loreen spends time, energy, money on her favorits, as spontaneous as possible):
๐๐๐พDance class: classical ballet๐ฉฐ class ๐ง๐พโโ๏ธ๐ง๐พโโ๏ธ๐ธ๐พ.
๐งก๐ฉ๐พโ๐ณHome made dish: pancakes๐ฅ, brownies๐ซ.
๐๐๏ธ Cinema: watch a magical๐ movie.
๐๐งบ Beach: enjoy a sweet (like hot chocolate milk๐ซ with whipped cream), juicy (like a herring sandwich) picknick on/near the beach๐๏ธโฑ๏ธ๐ ๐ค๏ธ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๏ธ๐๏ธ๐ ๐ถ๐พโโ๏ธ๐ฆถ๐พ.