Dear Leentje,

I see your emotions, needs and boundaries. They all are magnificent, important and of value the way they are. They don’t have to be perfect for you to earn my love. Perfecti’s conditional validation is unfair and not your fault. Perfecti’s messages are very ugly, mean and unhealthy. They make you feel frustrated, very disgusted, anxious, distraught, unloved and unseen. How awful. You are safe. I am here. I will stop Perfecti. Your body is yours. Look at me. I love you unconditionally.

Much love,

Loreen