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Recently, I came across a phrase in a video about divorce that has stayed with me: ‘The subtle disconnections, and then all at once.’ This sentence has lingered in my mind, and I can’t help but ponder its significance. My goal is to enrich the depths of the connection, both before and during the marriage.

I yearn to communicate with a sense of openness, one that intensifies the intimate bond we share. Even when discussing topics that might initially feel uncomfortable, unsettling, or even taboo – such as our behaviors, patterns, needs, feelings, and boundaries.

However, if we find our path leading to a growing disconnection, I would seek help, with the hope that it’s a shared endeavor. If our bond doesn’t deepen and the disconnections become more pronounced, I am prepared to explore alternative paths for our individual well-being, independently. The time we’ve invested in our relationship, even before the possibility of heartache, is far from wasted. The art of vulnerable communication, a skill to deepen our connection, is something I hope to carry with me thereafter.

Perhaps it’s wise for me to create a plan to cope with potential heartache, to understand how to heal after baring my soul completely and deeply. My desire is to fall in love passionately and profoundly, to plunge into the deepness of love together, and to swim hand in hand in the most mysterious, magical, and wonderful depths.

Written with the help of chatGPT🤖