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A special friendship

In a professional setting, I have a unique opportunity to uncover the true essence of an individual, assessing their generosity and self-discipline, all without the constraints of romantic expectations. Which creates less pressure and a more lighthearted, welcoming, fun and atmosphere. This is necessary to see where their free will guides them. This aspect holds a profound allure for me. I keenly observe the manifestations of their generosity as they freely share their resources, devote their time, grant their undivided attention, and exhibit patience. When they surpass my expectations in this area, I’m utterly captivated.

Their discipline is equally captivating, a testament to their self-care routine. I often find myself contemplating their hydration habits and their commitment to taking refreshing breaks for a breath of fresh air etc. My desire is for them to embrace both generosity and discipline, not only directed inward but also extended to their surroundings and the people they engage with.

Within this professional place, I’m well-prepared to identify those who embody the spirit of giving. I am ready to reciprocate with my own resources, time, and undivided attention etc. To ensure a mutually satisfying and extraordinary experience, I seek a very special friend (with upgrade potential) who matches my level of generosity and shares my dedication to mutual support and growth.

As we transition from acquaintances into the friendship phase (the do we like eachother phase), my quest is to unearth answers to some probing questions:

– Are they naturally generous, both towards themselves, their environment, and others, rather than merely complying out of obligation or with unspoken expectations of something in return?

– Are they disciplined, committed to their personal and environmental well-being, and determined to take another step even when challenges arise?

I’m curious about how to discern a person’s generosity and discipline beyond the confines of the workplace. Coffee meetings infused with opportunities for adventure, such as go-karting or surfing, may offer valuable insights and, a lighthearted, welcoming, fun and atmosphere (value > cost). The key lies in asking questions, to delve into the depths of their character and, foster a deeper connection.

While the intensity of our gaze and the allure of eye contact are important, the foundation of a long-lasting relationship extends far beyond mere infatuation.

I yearn for reciprocity, where not only our inner child modes find connection, but also where our shadow sides can coexist harmoniously, guided by impulse control(discipline). I’m eager to understand the depth of their healthy adult mode, character, and maturity.

Should all these elements enrich my life as intended, the possibilities are limitless. However, I remain curious about their goals and vision, for compatibility isn’t guaranteed solely by a balance between generosity and discipline.

Are we heading in the same direction?

To summarize the questions during this playful, fun, lighthearted friendship phase:

– Are they inherently generous, both towards themselves and those around them? Both material and immaterial.

– Are they dedicated and disciplined, willing to go the extra mile in adversity?

– Are our paths aligned?

Are the answers on these questions yes, yes and yes and accompanied by examples I personally experienced, I propose we lose ourselves a little more in each other’s gaze and enter the dating phase (the how much do we like eachother phase) first, before we commit for a very long loong looong time.

Written with the help of chatGPT 🤖