Dear Leentje,

I see how unloved, ashamed, distraught and anxious you feel in contact with women. You’re afraid to be rejected and abused. How sad and awful. This is old pain. You missed out on a lot of hugs, kisses, compliments and warmth. This was not your fault. You don’t have to be perfect. I accept you. You don’t need to hide. You are safe. I am here. I will communicate your boundaries, emotions and needs, if necessary with the help of others. We cannot control how others respond to them. Believe: you can handle whatever comes your way. You got this. I believe in you. Let me hug you tight. You are magnificent, important and of value the way you are. Let me compliment you. Listen: You are beautiful, wonderful, awesome, great, pure, unique, lovely and special. Let give you a peck on your forehead. MWAH. I am proud of you. I am thankful for you. I love you unconditionally.

Much love,

Loreen