Dear Leentje,

You feel very anxious, distraught, jealous, desperate, shy, unseen, lonely and curious in contact with men. How awful, sad, nice and confusing at the same time. This is old pain. Fall in love with life. You are safe. I am here. Hold my hand. You don’t need to hide. You are important, magnificent and of value the way you are. You are beautiful, wonderful, awesome, great, pure, unique, lovely and special. You are loved. You belong. I accept you. I support you. I will communicate your boundaries, emotions and needs, if necessary with the help of others. We cannot control how others respond to them. Believe: you can handle whatever comes your way. You got this. I believe in you, tropical angelic princess. I love you unconditionally, eternally.

Much love,

Loreen