Dear Leentje,

I see how distraught, lonely, unloved, powerless, anxious and mean you feel in contact with men. How confusing, awful and sad. This is old pain. You’re very curious about men and women, and that is okay. You are safe. I’m here. I will communicate your emotions, boundaries and needs, if necessary with the help of others. I see your need for autonomy. Your body is yours. You do not deserve to be punished. It is your body. It is not your fault how someone reacts. It is your body. You do not have to be perfect. It is your body. I accept you. You are loved. You belong. You are important, magnificent and of value the way you are. I love you unconditionally.

Much love,

Loreen