๐ DISSECT ๐
This month๐ , I’m praying๐๐พ๐ช๐พ๐ง๐พโโ๏ธ๐๐พ for their social needs to belong to a group๐ and the need to make deep๐งกโค๏ธ, meaningful๐ connections๐๐ซโญ๏ธ. That’s why I am thinking๐ญ about meeting my own social needs more. Meeting my need to belong to a group๐ might depend on my temperament:
Openness
Just like I instantly๐ซฐ๐พ fall in love๐ with a beautiful flower๐ชป๐บ or sunrayโ๏ธ, I also fall in love๐ when I meet new people๐ฅ๏ธ. The light๐ฏ they radiate looks beautiful to me, and it makes me feel happy.
Conscientiousness
I try to be disciplined about showingโจ๏ธ love ๐๐งกโค๏ธ through acts of service, gifts๐, and affirmations๐, even if I feel heartbroken๐ more than I feel in love๐.
Neuroticism
I quickly๐ซฐ๐พ feel a broken heart๐.
Extraversion
When I feel in love๐, I may come across as more extroverted (and might spend more quality time), but when I feel heartbroken๐, I may appear more introverted.
Agreeableness
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Grow๐ฉ๐พโ๐พ: Maybe I could try to spend more quality time๐งธ, whether I feel in love๐ or broken-hearted๐. To meet my social needs more, I need to discover๐ต๐พโโ๏ธ how to do this.
For example, discover๐ต๐พโโ๏ธ their hobbies and interests. Try๐ฉ๐พโ๐ฌ out one of their hobbies, take interest in their interests and see๐๐ how it makes me feel. Then spend quality time๐งธ with them, learn๐ค from their hobbies, build deep๐งกโค๏ธ, meaningful๐ connections๐๐ซโญ๏ธ.
