💋 AFFIRM 💋

Dear Leentje,

I see you. You feel ashamed, unseen, frustrated, dissapointed, worried, disgusted, short of breath, miserable, distraught, guilty, discouraged, afraid and bored. How tiring and stressful. This is old pain. You are safe. Stay. Open up: look for and focus on proof that people – including me – are trustworthy. I will communicate your boundaries, emotions and needs, if necessary with the help of others. We cannot control how people respond. I respect you. How they respond is not your fault. You don’t have to be perfect. I accept you. Believe: you can handle whatever comes your way. You got this. I believe in you. You are of value the way you are. Receive love, acceptance and attention. You belong. This is your body. Make your own choices. You got faith, stories, music, food and a lot of other things you enjoy. You want Hulu very bad, to see your favorites like Desperate Housewives, One Tree Hill, Family Guy and other cool series and movies. I see your gratitude for how I take care of you. I will provide a neat place for you to live in. You like luxury and that is okay.

Much love,

Loreen