💋 AFFIRM 💋

Dear Leentje,

I see how dissapointed, distraught, anxious, disgusted and frustrated you feel. How tiring and stressful. Setting and maintaining healthy boundaries makes you feel this way. This is old pain. You don’t deserve to be punished for it. You are safe. I am here. I accept you. I support you. Hold my hand. You are welcome to stay. Open up. I will communicate your boundaries, needs and emotions, if necessary with the help of others. We cannot control how others respond to them. How others behave is not your fault. Believe: you can handle whatever comes your way. You got this, mamita princesa bonita. I believe in you, big sparkle of joy. Listen: You are beautiful, wonderful, awesome, great, pure, unique, lovely and special. MWAH. You are important, magnificent and of value the way you are. Receive love, acceptance and attention. You are loved. You belong.

Much love,

Loreen