💋 AFFIRM 💋

Dear Leentje,

Your mother passed away. This is not your fault. I see how afraid this situation makes you feel. How frightning. This is old pain. Open up. You are safe. You don’t need to hide. I accept you. Stay. I am here. I support you. I will communicate your boundaries, needs and emotions, if necessary with the help of others. We cannot control how others respond to them. Believe: you can handle whatever comes your way. Receive love, acceptance and attention. You belong. You are loved. Let me pour you a cup of tea. Let me give you gentle peck on your temple. MWAH. Look at me: mourn at your own pace. You don’t have to be perfect. You are important, magnificent and of value the way you are.

Much love,

Loreen