🤷🏾‍♀️ ACCEPT 🤷🏾‍♀️

1. Leentje perceives death as unfair.

2. Leentje perceives antagonistic, callous – defence, survival – mechanisms as unfair.

Question

Is there something Loreen can do about the unfairness?

2. Yes.

If so, can Loreen adapt without hurting, to make it less unfair?

2. Check the safety of Leentjes environment(statistics).

2. Validate Leentjes perception: “I am here. I care about your experience. Your experience is important to me. Meeting your needs is important to me. You are important to me.”

2. Seek the needed support, help and protection for Leentjes perception, from those who also care about Leentje, who perceive Leentjes needs as important and are able to meet them.

2. Check how safe Leentjes environment is outside of her perception, based on statistics.