Dear Loreen,

I have a retroactive message for all burglars from the past:

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My body is my home. You forced yourselfs into my home, but those unwanted visits didn’t change my mind. You were and are not welcome in my house❗ You didn’t see me. You did not see how scared I felt. You didn’t see I needed your protection. That’s unfair❗I feel disgusted and unloved. You only saw a house and decided it was yours. My house is mine. I choose who I let in: access denied❗

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This was my message. I feel scared to share this boundary, but you told me I’m safe. I tried writing it by myself, but Lorena helped me a little bit.

Much love,

Leentje