π€·πΎββοΈ ACCEPT π€·πΎββοΈ
Loreen needs to create a safe environment for Leentje to receive attention. Lorena tends to protect Leentje from feeling mad by creating ways around the unfairness Leentje sees, with beautiful rose colored glasses. Loreen learns to accept life’s unfairness step by stepπΆπΎββοΈ(by developing habits to cope healthily). Loreen gives Leentje attention, creates a safe environment, by voicing the unfairness, by squeezing a pillow, by crying:
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After letting it all out, Loreen continues to support: by taking deep breathsππΎ, by saying “you worked hard, I am proud of you”, by continuing the structure of the day as much as possible and comfort Leentje a little more (for example: make a cup of teaπ΅, take a showerπΏ, comfort, affirmπ).
Question
Is there something I can do about the unfairness?
If so, can I adapt without hurting, to make it less unfair?