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Before most of the solo spicy dates, I felt a light existential feeling — like, what’s the point? No special friend to validate me at the end. But every time I tried something — whether out with a bigger budget or at home with a smaller one — I realized these experiences are more than just ways to indulge. They’re invitations to discovering and reclaiming parts of myself.

They help me explore what kind of pleasure, joy, or comfort I can find in small moments — and, gradually, step by step, how to deepen, intensify, and enrich that experience by daring to try just a little more.

The more I discover, the bolder I become in exploring new things. The more creative I allow myself to be as I daydream — like, what if I tried this or that?

And that validation… I’m starting to give that to myself more and more, too.